What I learned today:
There are no wrong decisions, only good and bad (but who really judges what is good and bad besides you).
Life is what you make of it. Truly, there is no path, but a million different trails in a giant maze. One can take as many or as few as they would like...
No map of the maze exists, you just pick a path, go down it, if it doesn't work out, either turn onto a new path, or turn around and go back.
Why do we so often forget that we are the ones who make our life what it is? It truly is our life and we can control it. If you want something, find a way to get it. If you don't like something, change it. On a daily basis I speak with those who
forget that they own their life, they make their life. They either cannot find the strength to get them to the next phase, or have been beaten into submission by external factors. This is unbelievable to me. As I wonder through life grabbing it by the horns and doing as I please going in whatever direction I feel that day, and have nothing holding me back, I don't even realize that I do it.
A dear friend comes to me and says, Sara, you need to share this secret of how to get your life back. I just wondered what kind of person would not take charge of their own life. Whether it be a new job, getting out of a bad relationship, getting into a new relationship, moving to an area you have always wanted to live, joining the peace corps to help others, everybody can do these things. What holds them back?
As long as good intentions are present, everybody should fully move forward with their dreams. Some may frown upon me for saying this, but it is your life. You have one and only one. So why not make it count? Live intensely, love intensely work intensely, love every minute of it, and if or when you stop loving it, move on.
If something better comes along, take it. Why sit around and wonder what might have been when you could be living it and learning what will be. If you make mistakes, so what? Take a step back, and reevaluate, then get back on a track, find a new one, derail, do whatever your heart desires with good intentions.
